Monday, August 8, 2011

The Mouth of the River: The House is a Nest for Dreaming: Singing Bowl with Sage

The Mouth of the River: The House is a Nest for Dreaming: Singing Bowl with Sage

The Mouth of the River: The House is a Nest for Dreaming: Singing Bowl with Sage

The Mouth of the River: The House is a Nest for Dreaming: Singing Bowl with Sage The Sober Cabin

The dream of a cabin over and over, in the woods, green gabled, dark with character. My mother was waiting for me there.
It was a home beyond any home I had ever known. A home with room enough for my thoughts. Shelves for my books. White scallop-edged curtains on every window.
The story theme of shyness and disability arranged in the corner table by a glass menagerie sitting on a rounded wood table in the corner of the room. It all looking to me like a diagram of what to figure out in this life, with elephants, ducks and horses patiently waiting. It was a place to be safe from all the storms. The basement grounded deep in the earth giving gravity to what moves inside. I am able to be still. I am a master of reflection here. It feeds me beyond bread. My heart can feel its beat.


Only I know what I overcame to belong here. The constant pounding thoughts, the hammering words given to children. "Stupid, Lazy, why did I have you? What are you good for? I hope God punishes you like he did me." The screams over a spoon left in the sink. The silence that holds no peace.

It was a cabin strong enough for my personal storms. Strong enough for love to enter. My mother waited for me there, years after dying and being reborn. The exhaustion I feel with each dream repeating itself over and over. My mother comes alive each time five years after her death and I must explain to everyone how this happens only to me - she is dead - she is alive, I must adjust and then she leaves again. Of her own choosing, gone with no known address, and again I grieve into exhaustion. Trying to explain how this keeps on happeningin my soul : torrential storms that just pass over leaving every tree and branch bent under the weight of wind and water.